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DAILY HABITS COUPLES ALWAYS HAVE
The happiest of couples have some similarities. They share in some of the habits we’re going to talk about. Little habits can make a big difference in your relationship. The good news is that you can start any of these daily habits today and change your relationship for the better.
They Say Thank You
Happy couples are careful to say thank you and express gratitude. It sounds like a small thing, right? It’s a small thing that matters in a big way. Expressing gratitude for little acts of kindness from your partner matters. It means that you still regard each other highly and you still treat each other with courtesy, which is important.
They’re Affectionate
Happy couples are affectionate with one another even after years of marriage. This is something very easy to have in your relationship. Purpose to be affectionate with one another. Talk about the fact that you want affection to be something you always give one another. It keeps you close as a couple and helps to guard against relationship problems.
They Put Their Phones Down
In our modern world of technology, most of us have our phones either in our hand or close at hand. If you watch happy couples, you’ll notice that they’re the same way with one big exception. When their partner talks to them, they put down their phone. They give each other their full attention. They let each other know that they matter more than anything on social media.
They Stay Connected Throughout The Day
Happy couples stay connected throughout their day. They have little ways to stay in touch while they’re apart. It could be a phone call just to say I love you, a text that says I’m thinking of you or even just a Snapchat to share a picture. The ways to stay connected are unique to each couple but what they share is that they make an effort to stay in touch when they’re apart. If you don’t already do this, you can start today!
They Focus On The Positive
Happy couples know the power of positivity. They make a conscious decision to focus on the positive in each other and in their relationship. This is probably the most important daily habit in this entire list. Having an attitude of gratitude is major. It gives your relationship a much higher chance of success.
They Have Rituals
If you take the time to talk to happy couples then you’ll discover that they have rituals in their relationship. They differ from couple to couple, but the point is, they’ve taken the time and effort to establish rituals that keep them feeling close and connected. For one couple, it may be that they share a cup of coffee while watching the sunrise. For another, it may be a goodnight text. It can be any number of things as long as it’s something you both enjoy.
They Have Fun Together
Happy couples have fun together. Not just on the weekends or on a once a year vacation but every day. They enjoy being together. They can always find something to laugh about and have fun even in the most un-fun situations because they love each other’s company. If you’re around a happy couple any length of time then you’ll notice this about them.
************Ways to distract yourself from thinking of him …
When you have a crush on a boy, it’s impossible to go through the day without having him pop into your head. Since it’s dangerous to act overly obsessed with him, those thoughts can become a problem. That’s why you need to find other things to occupy your time in order to get him off of your mind. To keep him from infiltrating your every thought, here’s what you can do:
Whip Up A Meal
If the thoughts of your crush are stressing you out, then you should enter the kitchen. Instead of stress eating, it’s healthier to stress cook. That way, you can learn a new recipe. Even if you munch on some of the ingredients, you won’t be eating nearly as much as you would’ve if you sat down with a big bag of chips.
Go Out With Male Friends
The best way to stop thinking about a certain boy is to hang out with other boys. If you don’t have any male friends, then you can hang out with your gal pals instead. It doesn’t really matter whom you’re spending time with, as long as they keep you occupied.
Take A Nap
When all else fails, you should go to sleep. Sure, you might dream of your crush, but that’s a risk you should be willing to take. Hopefully, you’ll wake up feeling refreshed and ready to take on the day without thinking of that special someone anymore. After all, the longer you go without seeing or texting him, the easier it’ll be to keep him off of your mind.
Write Down Your Thoughts
Sometimes, you just need to get the obsessive thoughts out of your system. Since you probably shouldn’t tell anyone about all of the naughty things you want to do to your crush, you can write them down instead. After you do so, feel free to rip up the paper or delete the word document. There’s no reason to save your words. Now that they’re out of your system, you should be able to focus better.
Do Crossword Puzzles
You should break out the crosswords or Sudoku puzzles, because they’ll require your full attention. You’ll be so focused on figuring out the answers that you’ll have no time to think about your crush. Of course, if you don’t have a newspaper with you, you can always download an app that’s meant to test your brain. As long as it keeps you occupied, it’s doing its job.
Watch Something Mindless
If it’s too hard for you to concentrate on puzzles, then you can do something mindless instead. Try watching television or listening to a podcast. Just make sure that you pick something entertaining, so that it has your full attention.
Exercise
Blast some music and get on the treadmill. Even though exercising gives you a lot of time to think at first, you won’t have time to daydream about your crush once your body is pushed to its limits. You’ll be too busy worrying about the sweat on your forehead and the pain in your side to think about a boy